And this post’s title perfectly sums up just about everyone’s reactions to me and my partner saying we are contemplating moving into an RV, full-time, but wait I swear there is logic here.

So currently we love one of our houses and hate the other. Now don’t get me wrong the house we hate is a beautiful raised ranch, three bedrooms, finished basement (with a full bar, sectional and giant screen and projector), large living room, eat in kitchen, huge yard and in a cul-de sac. Sounds perfect right? And it is for so many people, it’s just not right for us. We enjoy having lots of privacy and a walkable neighborhood. As a family we both spend a lot of time on our computers and I spend the other half in the kitchen cooking, baking, doing projects so we love a nice communal open living space. So we have this awesome house, but we only use two rooms really our bedroom and the kitchen. So for us it’s just a giant waste.

Now the other problem we face is maintaining. Anyone with a full-time job that is also a home owner with pets and kids knows how much work it is to keep one household going, now imagine doubling that. Its double the yard work, double the cleaning, double the bills and then some. The ‘and then some’ comes from added services, when you are only there on weekends you find a plow guy, trash pick up etc. are no longer luxuries. So our master plan has always been to sell the house we dislike and move. It’s the moving part we have struggled with for years.

The house that must go is moderately close to work, its well priced etc. So if we did sell it tomorrow to get something that better suites our needs we’d end up losing money on the house, investing in a new house that we know we won’t be staying in forever. It would simply be a lot of work and a lot of unnecessarily spent money. We know someday we want to live in our lake house full-time. We also know down the road we want to make RV’ing around the country a priority.

So this is where we landed as a couple, we like the idea of small living, to a degree. Even though we have very different hobbies we tend to almost always be together in the same room while we are home whether its me doing yoga in the living room while he watches TV and works on his laptop or him re-doing his Raspberry Pi while I’m doing arts and crafts we seldom need to separate. Even the house we love on the lake has a gorgeous sun drenched office and a huge oversize master bedroom they are almost never used. So enter the RV concept.

We already live well with limited access to all of our stuff. We have been thinking through and decreasing the amount of stuff in the house we want to sell for the past several years. I’ve donated bags and bags to the salvation army and have sold numerous items on Craigslist. We are working on building out storage in the basement and attic of our other home as well. So the plan is to live in the RV during the week for the next 5 years or so. We will do some touring but mostly during scheduled vacation time away from the office. We will still enjoy our lake house on the weekends as we do now year round. We are still working out which floor plan makes the most sense for RV living with kids and any additional future babies will be RV living as well until they reach school age.

So while you may be scratching your head about our lack of space, come tell me about while I’m living the camp life with my outdoor kitchen.

Which side of the RV are you on? Jealous of this kind of future life plan, fascinated but horrified? Let us know.


2 thoughts on “Two Homes, 3 pets, 1 kid and you want to live where!?!?

  1. This has been a dream of mine for a long time and I do see making the move in the future. I love the idea of keeping the lake home as it is something to fall back on if life in the RV gets too hectic. My question is that how will it effect the kids and school? Are you going to use a second vehicle while living in the RV or rely on the RV for transportation, or will it be a trailer where it can be separated from the vehicle? Where would you park it during the week?


  2. So currently our daughter is enrolled in school (she is co-parented) her physical address won’t change for school purposes and she will be at the lake or in the RV with us on weekends and during vacations. For our future children the plan is to continue RV living until they are in Kindergarten, at that point we will be ready to live at the lake full time and they will attend school there. Other options include home schooling while they are younger, not a favorite for me, but a lot of full time RV living families do do it. Plan being that once the kids are old enough we will take life on the road on a more full time basis. As far as the RV we plan on using a year round campground for the winter and during the season (May-Oct.) moving around between campgrounds that are near our offices in Boston, MA. So that being said we will keep at least one car with the RV, we have a small SUV and a Mini Countryman so odds are it will be the mini. We wanted it to be very easy to pack up and go so now travel trailers for us. We are still working out the kinks and trying to find an ideal floor plan for our growing family as well. The lake house does have an RV electrical port so it simply becomes an apartment when people visit.


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